Baby Related/ Shitty Family Vent:
I have 2 older brothers, my oldest brother is from my moms previous marriage so he's 20 years older than me and my brother is 4 years old than me and we have both parents are the same... anyways, we all havent spoken to (including my mom, its her son) for over a year, he threw a hissy fit last year that my brother and i were spoiled all our lives and he was basically upset my mom is different with us than she was with him.... but isnt that a little normal? I mean theres 20 years age gap between us, so my mom decided to do things differently the second time around, can you blame her if you get a second chance to do things differently??
Anyway, his new wife had a baby boy yesterday & the only reason i even know that is because i follow my 16 year old niece from his first marriage on Instagram.... Happy Holiday's ya'll, everyone has fucked up families but seriously, I thought eventually he would reach out after I had my daughter.... nothing. I mean, could I reach out to him now knowing he has a son? I mean I could... but it's just one of those situations where I feel like no matter what someone will be upset and hurt.
Also, my older cousin and his wife had a baby in early November and didn't tell anyone, at least not anyone in my house. The only reason I knew about that is because they sent out Holiday cards in December with pictures of their daughter on them... Can't make this stuff up!