Monday, January 2, 2012

Sex Myths- BUSTED ;)

Article is from Women's Health Magazine online, love that magazine & very interesting topic of conversation. Italiacs are going to be my 2 cents on the excerpt.

He's Intimidated by Your Vibrator
Wrong! In fact, your guy might be secretly hoping you'll bust out a new "toyfriend" during your next romp. According to a recent Indiana University study, 41 percent of women have used a battery-powered buddy with their partner. And it goes beyond him watching you go wild: "Many men find vibration pleasurable on their penis and other body parts," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a research scientist at Indiana University and author of Because It Feels Good. If he's game, vary the vibration speed and intensity to find something that revs up both of you.

I never thought of using a sex toy with anyone other them myself, it just sounds weird i mean how does that get brought up? "Want to have sex?, Nah, Id rather just use my vibrator tonight" hahaha i mean it just seemed weird to me but after getting drunk one night my boyfriend asked me if i touched myself when I don't see him. I was honest and said yes, he thought it was really hot & told me to bring them over next time because he wanted to see what i do when he's not around. I have to admit, it was kinda hot when he got so turned on, he took charge and used them on me. I thought it would be weird, but it almost made us closer to each other because we were really open and honest. I mean, if he's not around and I'm in the mood.... I have to do something about it, I'm not single I can't just find any random guy. Have any of you guys ever used toys in the bedroom with your partners?

The G-Spot Doesn't Really Exist
Earlier this year, a French study found physical evidence of this elusive erogenous zone: Women who were able to achieve vaginal orgasm had thicker-than-average tissues between the vagina and the urethra. Whether this area is a magic orgasm-inducing button for you depends on your sensitivity, says Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., coauthor of The Orgasm Answer Guide. "Lie on your back and have your partner (or yourself) use one or two fingers to stimulate the upper front wall of your vagina with a 'come here' motion," she says. Hit the right spot and within 10 seconds you'll know it. During vaginal intercourse, try rear entry or woman on top—both put his penis in a position to hit the jackpot.

I don't care what it is, or where it is.... if it's a mythical spot or not. But when it's touched, licked or fucked right, eventually it then becomes the best high in the world!! Learn it guys!! 

Size Matters
A bigger penis doesn’t necessarily make sex more mind blowing. For one, it won’t help a guy reach your (very real— see myth No. 3) G-spot, and it could actually be painful if his penis hits your cervix during sex. If his length is lacking, stick to positions that keep you close together (such as missionary), have him use a grinding rather than thrusting movement, and wrap your legs around him for extra clitoral stimulation. Got a bigger boy? Woman-on-top positions (like reverse cowgirl) let you control the depth of his stroke.

Size only matters, if when hard it's the size width and length of your pinky from the knuckle to nail. I've seen those before... it's more or less like a tic tack you wont feel anything. But really big, like scary big like sausage status will make most girls bleed and feel uncomfortable which isn't good either. What ever happened to average?? hahahaha Girls, do you think size matters?!

Watching Porn Is a Guy Thing
Watching porn is a guy thing. Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis found that looking at erotic images caused a rapid increase in women’s electrical brainwave activity that was just as strong as in men’s. “Women can use porn to find out what they like and are comfortable with in the bedroom,” explains Lou Paget, a certified sex educator. Watch it solo to help yourself get into the mood, or invite your guy to watch your fave film together as foreplay.

Another thing while drunk, got brought up between me and my man. I don't watch it really, but I've watched it before and he thought that was really sexy. So, we watched it together and i don't know it just seemed like the intensity was turned up because it's normal to look at other people as long as we still have the hots for each other, only have sex with each other and don't need the porn to get off, just thought it would be something different to put it on during. A funny porn, it always the best kind to break the ice too. Anyone watch porn with their significant others to turn up the heat a little once and a while? Or maybe some role playing? Some S&M? A little experimenting never killed anyone.

Don't Forget, practice safe sex and use condoms <3


Dani said...

Thank You, this is my kind of blog, yes I have used a toy with my partner . . . He bought it for me hehe & I don't think it's weird at all, although I understand some people might . . . But have they tried it??? Cause once you do you'll never go back, & it's exactly the same, when he's not around a girls gotta do what a girl's gotta do hey :)

& Porn is a guy thing . . . NO WAY . . . nothing wrong with a bit of visual stimulation at all :)

Great Post + Following :)

MurphysLaw said...

I dont think my man would buy me a sex toy, but he sure as hell enjoys knowing i use one with and without him hahaha & i agree, if people haven't tried it with their partner, they should!! Visual stimulation never killed anyone either as long as your still hott for eachother and don't need the porn to get horny as hell for eachother.
i also am a big fan of sexting lately, words and images can be a huge turn on!! & if you dont live with your man you gotta find some ways to spice things up to keep it interesting and sexy :]

+following you too :D