Thursday, March 1, 2012

The seasons can affect your sex drive??!!

"Quotes" are from an article online from Womens Health Magazine. Bold Italics are going to be my review/opinion on the advice they are giving.

"If shorter days and dipping temperatures have you feeling more snuggly than sexy lately, there's an explanation: "In the winter, many people's testosterone levels decrease, which can lower libido substantially," says Jed Diamond, Ph.D., author of Irritable Male Syndrome. Prevent your sex life from going into a deep freeze by following this advice."
That's interesting because most people i know in the winter aren't look for a serious boyfriend or girlfriend, but specifically a 'snuggle buddy'. They want someone to keep warm with and be all lovey nothing exciting and crazy like what people look for in the summertime. I mean i feel tired a lot more in the winter i had no idea weather affected testosterone levels though, this actually explains a lot of things I've wondered about over the course of my life.

"Embrace your body
Screw your post-dinner bloat—and no running to pee wrapped in a sheet after sex. Guys actually find you sexier in the wintertime, according to a study published in the journal Perception. In the summer, they see so much skin that they become more critical of women's bodies. But in the winter, women aren't showcasing their toned butts and abs, so men are more accepting of different body types and are more likely to overlook flaws. Don't feel comfortable lounging around naked? Throw on something that highlights your best assets, like a cute pair of boy shorts or a sexy tank top."
Well, i feel like people judge and criticize no matter what season but i guess i can see people being more sexually attracted to someones personality and face in the winter then their body because they are covered. But I'm almost positive that once the clothes come off, for most people... it's judgment time.  & I'm sorry but unless you have the BEST heating system in the world, who the hell walks around the house naked or in boy shorts and a tank top in the winter?! ITS COLD!!!

"Try a hot trick
"Warm sensations bring the blood to the skin's surface, increasing sensitivity," says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., author of Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots. Blow hot air over the thin-skinned parts of his body, such as his neck, ears, inner thighs, and scrotum. Or keep a mug of warm tea on the bedside table, and before you go down on him, swish some around in your mouth. You can also rub heat-activated lube on each other's shoulders, back, butt, or genitals."
Why do i feel like someone who reads this, is going to burn their partner with tea that is TOO HOTT?! That sounds weird & slightly painful if you don't know what your doing. The blowing hot air thing is normal and I'm sure everyone's done that at one time, but seriously where do they come up with this hot tea trick stuff?!
"Be more intimate during sex
Rather than sex positions that require astounding feats of flexibility, try a few that encourage coziness. Lie on your side while he spoons you, or while you're stomach-down, have him lie flat on top of you and enter you from behind. And get your boobs in on the action: "Your breasts are made of glandular tissue, so they can generate heat when they're stimulated and pressed against warm skin," says certified sex educator Lou Paget, author of Hot Mamas. Use them as a tool during foreplay to give both of you some added thrills."
Well i feel that intimacy is atleast 75% of a relationship, if you can't be intimate then your probably just fuck buddies and your relationship won't last very long. Sex is a big part of everything in a relationship but if you cant be close & intimate then there's something off. You have to be able to be best friends, lovers, and  each others fantasies.

"Get busy on the clothes dryer
Yeah, the laundry room is for getting things clean, but you can also use it to get down and dirty. Hop onto the humming dryer while he stands between your legs, and let him give you oral attention. "You can hoist one leg over his shoulder to give him easier access," says Fulbright. The heat from the machine plus the vibrations will amp up the experience."
Again, ouch. These people are trying to put you in pain!! & what if you dont have a washer and dryer?! That would be awkward to walk into a laundrymat or your apt complex one and see people just having sex. I'd take my clothes somewhere else, clean. hahahahahaha

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